it is a team sport, where both the team mates are learning, playing, learning…

One says “If I told you this in the field you would get angry! Why don’t you throw it zxy way when it becomes so and so then!!”
Two thinks what if these words were “I have not seen you throwing zxy anytime. How about trying it sometime!? Let me know next time you want to do it, I’ll catch it”

Words must have warmth to reach the listener.
Talks must inspire.